Building intimacy in your relationship is crucial if you are looking for your relationship to last decades! And achieving this type of DOES takes work, so be prepared to put in some effort!
Is it out of the realm of possibility? Absolutely not!
Let me ask you a question ... You love and adore each other, but is there something serious lacking when it comes to intimacy?
Relationships are very complicated and sometimes difficult. They can be very painful - but also very rewarding.
This relationship secret, may just help you in your quest.
This may be easier said than done, especially when your partner doesn't agree with you. And here we go again, - life just happens this way.
There are going to be days when you and your partner, just don't see eye to eye. But, it's how you react to this situation that can make or break your relationship.
You may have to give your memory a kick-start, and think back to when you both started out together as a couple. What brought you both together in the first place?
Many times those little things that you never really noticed, or you did, but choose to ignore it - now seem to piss you off now.
Decide together to start fresh in your relationship, regardless how many years or decades you've been together! Actually the longer you've been together, all the more important to find ways to keep your relationship renewed and exciting. Keeping your connection with one another connected - for a lifetime!
The next time you set time apart for the two of you to connect, start off with a simple, but very effective sentence ...
"How Can We ...?"
Depending on your situation, you can run with this, and hopefully come to some sort of mutual answer.
Question: "How can we find the time to be intimate with each other when we are so busy with our jobs, running errands and running the kids to their activities? We are exhausted by the time we hit our bed.
Together you can make a conscious decision to solve this problem. Schedule time to be together!
It might be that you decide on "Date Night", once a week (more if possible). Don't wait for perfect timing to get together or the perfect mood to strike, or the perfect moment to appear. Create anticipation, it can be a powerful aphrodisiac.
Spend time before bed talking or playing (without the T.V. on), or setting the alarm 1/2 hour earlier than usual, to spend time in bed together (cuddling, sex, or just talking).
Plan your sexual encounters, and romantic getaways - your relationship will thank you for it!
This is a perfect sentence, if you are having a difficult time talking about the touchy subject of sexual needs. You may want to try something sexually exciting, that can turn your sex life around!
You will find that both of you will find a solution together for building intimacy, rekindling the spark and transforming your relationship!