Why is it, that the word "intimate toys", has some of you clinging to the ceiling?
Is it simply a sexual inhibition, you haven't dealt with - YET? If so, I'm here to debunk the myths about sex toys, and change your relationship forever!
First things first ... most of the myths that you have been lead to believe are simply not true. Society's whacky way of thinking has made the word "intimate toys", a taboo word, without getting all the facts straight.
If this is YOU, but your curiosity
about pleasure toys, has gotten the best of you - keep reading. This
just might change your way of thinking!
And I hope it does! When you shed
your sexual inhibition about intimate toys, you will experience sexual
intimacy with your partner like never before.
Enough chatter on whether or not intimate toys are right for your relationship ... BUT, don't decide yet.
All types of people use sex toys. Anyone you can imagine, is the kind of person that uses sex toys.
If you've done any type of research, (on educational sex sites), you will find that more couples enjoying sex, add the extra pleasure of sex toys to their relationship, than those that aren't having sex at all!
Many couples not only enjoy sex toys with foreplay, but also during sexual intercourse to enhance sexual pleasure. They can also help explore the wonderful and sensuous erogenous zones.
Intimate toys shouldn't be considered a crutch, because they're not, they are simply an addition to a intimate relationship that is on fire!
It's only those of you that would
rather not consider a sex toy at all, who come up with a variety of
reasons, how these harmless toys can be dangerous. Doctors recommend
adding sex toys in relationships for a couple of reasons ...
Okay, for the danger ... let's face it, I guess you could always poke an eye out, while playing with the lights out.
Many people would believe this is true. You know the scene ... behind closed doors, when nobody is watching. And, you know who you are!
It's time to share the magic with your partner!
Thank goodness, loving couples are
being educated about these playful toys and are finally realizing the
enjoyment, pleasure and variety they bring into a relationship.
Now, don't get me wrong, solo play it where it all begins, but using them together only heightens sexual arousal for both of you!
This is a common myth, that definitely needs to be busted!
If you've ever experienced an orgasm with a vibrator or any other sex toy, you know how intense the "Big O" is. And as good as a sex toy feels, they don't replace real people. PERIOD!
You can't cuddle and have an intimate relationship with a toy - There is no replacement for the real thing.
I realize some men (and you know who
you are), may be intimidated by sex toys, because you were raised,
believing that the most powerful and important tool you have, is found
right between your legs. That your penis alone, can satisfy a woman
The best way for you to become a
better lover, is learn more about YOUR own sexual response - what gets
YOU off. Using sex toys doesn't mean you are a loser, it means you are
smart, and in tune with your partner. Of course that also means you
are likely to be better in bed! (Brownie Points!)
So ladies, this myth is quite the
opposite - adding a toy to your sexual repertoire will heighten your
sexual senses and spice up your sex life forever!
Of course, if you are thinking or
wanting to add a toy to your "treasure chest", you must be truthful,
honest and open with your partner when you communicate your feelings and
desires. Ease their concerns, by letting them know, they could never
be replaced by a toy.
Your end result - you both want to feel totally comfortable with the whole idea.
The first question... What is the meaning of addiction? You're absolutely right, if you said ... Causing harm. What harm is there in bringing more pleasure to both of you?
To be truthfully honest, this myth leans a bit on the true side.
Only because the orgasm you experience
from using a vibrator or other sex toys, can be so intense and the
feeling is so incredible, that it's not difficult to want to use it more
Like all things in life, when we enjoy something, we want it more often.
Intimate toys cannot replace Real Intimacy, in a great relationship. It's actually the opposite - toys can bring couples closer together.
They can revive a sex life that has gone into hibernation, and breath new life into your sexual pleasures.
Last, but certainly not least ...
As it seems this article may be more directed to women getting comfortable with sex toys and masturbating, I certainly don't want to leave out you men, who are left wondering ... "What About Me"?
We've all heard it, right? The story of
men behind closed doors with a "girly" magazine while masturbating.
And what about ... men purchasing a "masturbator"?
NEWS FLASH: Masturbating is a healthy and normal part of life
(just ask your physician). Men can actually learn to be better lovers
as well as learn to control ejaculation, which is apparently a concern
on the ladies side of the fence.
We want a great sexual experience to last! Don't we?
Masturbation with or without sex toys can improve sexual pleasure for both men and women - alone as well as together.
An Added Tip For YOUR Pleasure:
When you are comfortable masturbating by your self, share the experience with each other! Show each other how you can sexually pleasure yourself. Learn to be a student of each other bodies and pleasure zones! You will both be glad you did!