Wondering if sex after 50 can still be amazing, let alone achieved? The Baby Boomer generation is showing the world once again, that we can push the envelope even when it comes to aging and our sexuality!
After all, it's no big secret - we Boomers are masters of our own fate!
Enjoying good sex in my 50's and beyond is exactly what I'm counting on - aren't YOU?
Making love after 50, should be more emotionally fulfilling because now it's driven more by desire to be with your partner, rather than those crazy hormones!
Here's a little secret ... the MORE you have sex, the MORE you will desire it and the more in tune you will be with your sexuality. So, make regular sex a part of your life!
Let's face it - the truth is, sex DOES change as we age, but what doesn't?
Relax, the changes that take place, certainly aren't all negative! (Do I hear a sigh of relief)? Yes, you will face roadblocks in your bedroom, (no doubt), but with a few modifications and a bit of creativity, sex can be even more satisfying.
Well, we certainly have the extra time on our hands, to explore love making on a whole new level. It's easier to relax and look forward to lovemaking. We don't have the same distractions (kids), so when the moment strikes ....
When the topic of "sex after 50" arises, so do a lot of eyebrows! Depending on who you ask, there are many myths associated with it.
Apparently, the younger generation doesn't believe we are still "doing the naughty"!
F.Y.I. - Sex Is ALIVE and Kicking For The Boomers!
Since I'm from this great generation, and I am certainly outspoken, I thought I would shed some light on the subject of Sex and the Boomers, and uncover some of the most popular myths. It's time to set a few people straight!
Beyond A Certain Age (that's us) People Have Little To No Interest In Sexual Activities
Oh really? Would someone like to inform these people of our little secret? Sexuality has absolutely NO age limit or expiry date, the last time I checked.
The truth is, that many Boomers
consider their sex life even more satisfying then when they were
younger. Which of course comes down to the intimacy they have achieved
in their relationship.
With the variety of sexual enhancing products available on the market for our generation, I would say that we must be desiring better sex, and more of it!
A Woman Loses Her Ability to Achieve Orgasms As She Ages
This is quite the opposite. Many
women, including myself, find that sexual pleasure is more frequent and
the orgasms can be more intense.
By now, you know what you like and dislike, and you should feel free spirited in the bedroom. Hopefully, by now, you have shed any sexual inhibitions, that you may still be holding on to.
This has a lot to do with feeling good in the skin you live in, not being so hung-up on your body image.
And, for some of us, we discovered the Wonderful World Of Intimate Toys. If you are still one of those women that drops your jaw hearing the word "sex toy", or you believe that they are still "taboo", make sure you take the time to bust the myths on that subject.
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A Man Loses His Ability To Get An Erection As He Ages
We are all aware that Erectile Dysfunction can happen at ANY age!
Although, diminishing hormone
levels can add changes in their bodies, it doesn't mean that making love
just goes "out the window". That's what doctors are for, and of course
those "little blue pills".
Aside from medical help ....
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Masturbation Takes Away Your Ability To Enjoy REAL Sex With Your Partner
First of all, masturbation is NOT a dirty word. It's a healthy and natural thing to do.
And many educational sexual sites and doctors will more than agree, so don't get bent out of shape when you hear that word.
Surprisingly enough, this myth is quite the opposite!
Masturbation can actually increase sexual pleasure, with or without your partner.
Why not experiment with this one? Adding an intimate toy, or even a romantic game to your regular routine can really spice up your sexual life!
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Sexual Pleasure Is A Bust, If You Don't Have An Orgasm
Women know the real answer to this myth. You actually may be surprised to know, that many women don't climax every time we have sex!
For many women, it is difficult to orgasm from intercourse alone. Many of us need our clitoris to be stimulated as well. This is exactly why it's a good idea to consider adding a G-Spot vibrator to your sexual repertoire.
Aside from experiencing an orgasm, as you age, sexual pleasure comes in many forms ...
These are all forms of pleasure.
It's time to get creative!
Not every sexual encounter is going to
be mind-blowing! Let loose of the "rules", have fun and spend time
experiencing passion with your partner.
Adults Over 50 Don't Have "Hot & Steamy" Sex or Use Sex Toys
One of the wonderful luxuries of
aging ... we have the freedom and time to spend quality time with our
partners. To let loose, explore and experiment with each other
We're able to shed our sexual inhibitions.
Now as far as vibrators are concerned. One a personal note: I'll let you in on a little secret ... they are not only a "girl's best friend", but a couples journey to ecstasy!
To experience a deeper sexually intimacy, keep the communication open with each other; your desires, your wants and your needs. Set aside time to be sexual and sensual together, and watch the magic happen!
Enjoying great sex after 50, is the Icing On The Cake! We've spent our lives learning it; why not use it?